Really?

It seems that I am being rejected, betrayed and abandoned for reasons I can barely grasp, let alone correct.
What to do with accusations of being too spiritual, thinking Jesus is the answer to every question, encouraging others to pray too much.

I must admit, I'm confused.  How can these be reasons to quit a marriage, to destroy lives, a family, future families?  How can Christ's church bear these kinds of wounds for reasons like this?
Oh, Lord Jesus.  Forgive me.  Soften my heart.  Show me the plank(s).  Soften his heart, too.

I'm shuddering at the effect this abandonment, this giving up on promises and covenant made will have on my children.  What, Lord, can be done to deflect the damage?  Show me your way, oh Lord, and help me to walk in it.  And please, mighty God, show him too.